"Vi, do you know how to find a good friend or person who will love you forever and will stay with you like a couple of shoes that will never leave you untill you do it?"
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I got this question from the person who feels lonely for a long time. He wanted to know how is possible to find such a great and devoted friend. He doesn`t believe that such people exist in our world. It was hard for me-to give him an exact answer. I thought over his words two days. You know, to find a real friend or real love is not like going outside and asking who can be your friend or who can love you. Life is not so easy unfortunately.
I had different variants of answer into my head but they`re not right. Today I understood one simple truth.
You mustn`t search such friend. You have to be such friend to others. You mustn`t search love from other people-you have to love.
I`d like to become such person for someone...Does nobody send you sweets and cute postcards when you`re sick? I will come to you and will give you sweets, honey, rasberry jam, lemon and interesting books.
Does nobody remember what coffee do you like? I will remember and I will buy this coffee to you if you`ll become frozen during our walk in autumn park.
Does nobody listens to you? I will listen to your stories all night if you will need it.
Does nobody supports you? I will sit near you and will accuse the whole world if you need it.
Does nobody shows you a friendship, a love in actions? I will create presents for you, I will buy your favorite chocolate and your favorite tea.
Or you just can invite me to your home and I`ll come there with your favorite food. Tired, maybe a little bit sleepy, a little bit lost but it doesn`t matter because you are more important than anything else.
Therefore I am afraid to get used to people-I can become a perfect person for you but having received desirable, you don`t thank and you don`t notice anything. You just use that "best friend" or that "love".
Of course we shouldn`t think about answer from people after our good actions. You do something good because you wanna do it-everybody has to remember this simple truth. No better feeling than giving back.
But we all are alive people and we all have feelings. If person for whom you do good things, will never appreciate them, you can`t do it all the time. Friendship and relationships aren`t a charity work.
"Vi, do you know how to find a good friend or person who will love you forever and will stay with you like a couple of shoes that will never leave you untill you do it?"
I don`t know. But I know that I would like to be the same person for some people. But I am afraid.
One advice to all of you, guys: never get inside someone`s life if you are not planning to remain in it.
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I got this question from the person who feels lonely for a long time. He wanted to know how is possible to find such a great and devoted friend. He doesn`t believe that such people exist in our world. It was hard for me-to give him an exact answer. I thought over his words two days. You know, to find a real friend or real love is not like going outside and asking who can be your friend or who can love you. Life is not so easy unfortunately.
I had different variants of answer into my head but they`re not right. Today I understood one simple truth.
You mustn`t search such friend. You have to be such friend to others. You mustn`t search love from other people-you have to love.
I`d like to become such person for someone...Does nobody send you sweets and cute postcards when you`re sick? I will come to you and will give you sweets, honey, rasberry jam, lemon and interesting books.
Does nobody remember what coffee do you like? I will remember and I will buy this coffee to you if you`ll become frozen during our walk in autumn park.
Does nobody listens to you? I will listen to your stories all night if you will need it.
Does nobody supports you? I will sit near you and will accuse the whole world if you need it.
Does nobody shows you a friendship, a love in actions? I will create presents for you, I will buy your favorite chocolate and your favorite tea.
Or you just can invite me to your home and I`ll come there with your favorite food. Tired, maybe a little bit sleepy, a little bit lost but it doesn`t matter because you are more important than anything else.
Therefore I am afraid to get used to people-I can become a perfect person for you but having received desirable, you don`t thank and you don`t notice anything. You just use that "best friend" or that "love".
Of course we shouldn`t think about answer from people after our good actions. You do something good because you wanna do it-everybody has to remember this simple truth. No better feeling than giving back.
But we all are alive people and we all have feelings. If person for whom you do good things, will never appreciate them, you can`t do it all the time. Friendship and relationships aren`t a charity work.
"Vi, do you know how to find a good friend or person who will love you forever and will stay with you like a couple of shoes that will never leave you untill you do it?"
I don`t know. But I know that I would like to be the same person for some people. But I am afraid.
One advice to all of you, guys: never get inside someone`s life if you are not planning to remain in it.
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