Why aren`t we happy in relationships?

There are three types of women: women-"daughters", women-"sisters" and women-"mothers". Same about men: men-"fathers", men-"brothers", men-"sons". And all of them coexist with each other only in pairs. "Fathers" are looking for "daughters" who are glamorous and beautiful and aren`t capable to earn money and cook even fried eggs. "Fathers" need to feel like patrons, defenders, sometimes even like owners. They like to understand that women are dependent of them.

"Brothers" are looking for "sisters" who have the same interests and hobbies, who are ready to go anywhere with them: in mountains, in a round-the-world travel, without regard to rain, snow and hail. "Brothers" like to watch football with "sisters", play video-games together and feel an equality of contribution to family and agreement of opinion in everything. 

"Sons" are looking for "mothers" because their mothers are not eternal, bosses are angry, life is very difficult and they cannot warm soup and choose the haircut. Of course, "sons" need someone who is responsible and will do everything for them. And "mother" will be happy near such "son" because she`s sure that he will die without her; that to ask a man to buy pork and cabbage it is receive the packing of smoked salted pork and the package of frozen broccoli; that men cannot wash the dishes and floor; that they are weak and need to be safe. 

Perfect relationships, how do you think? Everybody is happy. But what do we see in real life? Almost always three types of men fall in love with women-"daughters". The main function of woman-"daughter" -to look good and attract men- works perfectly. Then she is starting to choose that man who is better for her. Woman-"daughter" will never choose a man-"son". Only thing that she can do-to ask him go away and never come back. Man-"son" will shout that all women are bitches and can`t appreciate sincere qualities. Men-"brothers" are very stubborn sometimes and "daughters" think that such kind of relationships can not be bad. But then this couple finds many problems. He does all home work because she has a manicure; only he earns money; they want to spend vacation in different places; she doesn`t like his friends and he doesn`t like her friends. The result is a little predictable: divorce, fight for property and for children. He`s shouting that women are bitches and it will be better to be a bachelor. She`s counting how much money she took from him and looking for new husband.

A woman-"sister" is absolutely another than a woman-"daughter". She`s dressed in jeans, t-shirt and shoes without heels. She almost doesn`t have a make-up, can tell funny jokes all the time and her eyes are always happy. Man-"father" can impress a woman-"daughter" with wealth and big opportunities. He wants to see respect from her. But such couple almost never creates a family. When "sister" notices that "father" wants to be the main person in relationships, she will leave him without delay. Sometimes man-"son" creates a family with woman-"daughter" but results are not happy. First time she will enjoy the poems written in her honor but after a while she`ll be tired of husband who is not able to make important decisions and solve problems independently. Man-"son" will watch TV or play video-games and woman-"sister" will file for divorce. He won`t understand it because he was sure that their relationships were perfect.

Almost nobody likes women-"mothers" at once. They don`t have a "bright" appearance, they don`t dress good and all their interests are boring: knitting, embroidery, cooking, floriculture. These women are sure that beauty is not the main thing in a woman. Man-"father" will never marry a woman-"mother" because he wants to visit important business meetings with young and glamorous girlfriend, that  partners in work envied him. If "father" marries "mother", he will cheat her and then will get divorced took everything away from her, even children (if he needs them). 

Men-"brothers" don`t choose women-"mothers" too. They`ll be bored near them. "Brother" wants to travel, to ride a bike, to talk about sports, movies and clubs. "Mother" kills him with her excessive guardianship: she asks "brother" to put the warm socks on (and warm scarf, and warm hat, and underwear with a pile). He dreams about new car and she dreams about third child, but he doesn`t have enough money for three children. His friends annoy her. This kind of relationships doesn`t finish good: he leaves her, pays alimony and feels guilty because he destroyed the family. And she hates him because he left her and children. 

Familiar situations, don`t you think so? And many of you had the same in life. You say that all women are bitches or all men are morons because you choose "not your" people. You create wrong relationships with wrong men and women. It is necessary to understand what you want from life, what you like to do and what is interesting for you. You shouldn`t create relationships with person just because he/she is beautiful because then you will be disappointed that "son" is not a "brother" and "mother" can`t be a "daughter". Don`t choose people who cannot be "yours". You don`t take sausages in the shop if you are a vegan and eat only vegetables, right? The same is here: some people can`t give you all what you need. The main thing is to understand yourself and stop tormenting a wrong person because his and your couple suffer from loneliness and discrepancy with someone else.